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Love has NO boundary.

It amazes me how much I see ‘so called’ spiritual people attacking other people, placing blame, accusing wrong doings, claiming to be ‘higher vibrational beings’ or more in tune with spirit. Do they not realize that this type of behavior is the exact opposite of what it means to be ‘spiritual’...? To be of one in alignment with Source energy? To be truly connected to LOVE at your core? The other morning I woke up with the following message in my head that I know was placed there directly by Spirit. “Boundaries are nothing more than the distance between yourself and your ability to embrace unconditional love.” I’ve been noticing a lot of self professed spiritual teachers posting messages about creating boundaries with others, being offended or hurt and needing to cut OTHERS out of their lives or blocking them on social media. Then boasting about how spiritual they are because they’ve learned to to honor themselves and cut out the negativity in their lives. And of course everyone reading these messages applaud and support this behavior as setting up ‘healthy boundaries’, stroking their egos even more. All the while they refuse to look at their own behaviors and the mirrored actions they have been participating in that have caused the discord in the first place. It amazes me the ego that is so prevalent in this spiritual community that is meant to be loving and supportive of one another. If boundaries are nothing more than the distance between yourself and your ability to embrace unconditional love, then setting up these boundaries also keeps you from unconditionally loving yourself. Often what we see as unloveable in another are qualities that WE OURSELVES are transmitting. Source does not put up boundaries. Source does not judge or pick and choose who to praise or uplift or share love with. It’s the ego that does that. It’s the ego mind that needs to compare and judge and separate and evaluate and categorize people as good and bad or higher and lower. Judging the OTHER as more or less evolved. And that judgement only comes from a place of being insecure with oneself. When one is feeling LESS THAN it is necessary to put up boundaries so as not to be hurt or feel shame or feel used. However, when one is truly aligned with Source ONLY LOVE flows. No matter what the circumstance, no matter what the situation. ONLY LOVE FLOWS. Now am I saying it is wise to let others walk all over you? Of course not. That isn’t love either. However, most people who allow others to walk all over them have created those situations through their own personal self-worth issues. And it’s much easier for them to blame the other instead of looking at their own stumbling blocks. When one is truly focused on LOVE and alignment with SOURCE those situations that create the need for the boundaries NEVER ARISE in the first place!! Growing up in the Christian Church we had this phrase that we used to use when someone was acting self-righteous. “Holier Than Thou”. And I see this behavior so much in the spiritual communities. Everyone now uses the term ‘higher vibration’. Raise your vibration above the others. And that somehow sets you apart as special. When all the while Spirit, Source, Creator is ASKING you to do JUST the opposite. FIND your alignment with the OTHER. Find the SEED of the HEART of LOVE. Stop pushing against and setting up boundaries and instead seek to find the common ground, the LOVE that is who we all are at our core. And sometimes that requires us to give up the FIGHT. This life isn’t about winning and losing as we may have been taught to believe. It’s about LOVING and becoming more aligned with one another THROUGH THAT LOVE. And when you run across someone you perceive as unloveable. FIRST look at the pieces in yourself you find unloveable and LOVE you anyways. Then find that SEED of the HEART of LOVE in the other and find them LOVEABLE too. WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER whether you like it or not. We might as well start spreading LOVE to the other instead of setting up boundaries and pushing against. BE THE LOVE YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD AROUND YOU and before you know it the WORLD AROUND YOU WILL REFLECT THAT LOVE and ACCEPTANCE back to you!


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